The problem addressed by this pattern is one that should be familiar to most: needing guidance in unfamiliar ground. The authors propose that you find a “master craftsperson” to guide you, but recognize a flaw: it is difficult to find true masters in a craft that is still fairly young, and in which the tools evolve very quickly. Most of all, they emphasize the importance of getting over the anxiety of reaching out, because the upside of success is so high.
This resonates with me and with my experiences. I find that I am very successful when I have found a mentor of whom I can ask questions and bounce ideas without fear of ridicule or rejection. Even if my mentor doesn’t respond right away or have the answer, the act of formulating my thoughts enough to send them as a question to someone else can help me find what I’m looking for.
The authors also recommend taking on a mentor role when you have the opportunity. This is also something that I’ve found helps me learn. It may be common wisdom at this point, but I’ve found that I don’t know how much I know (or what critical knowledge I lack) until I go to teach it to someone else. My family members often find themselves in the (hopefully patient) position of listening to me test my knowledge by explaining things to them — doing that by teaching someone that is really invested in learning the topic is even better!
I can also connect with the anxiety of reaching out, especially to someone with whom I do not have a previous connection. No matter how beneficial the outcome may be, and no matter what my past experiences have been (overwhelmingly positive) I tend to have trouble taking that first step of making a connection. In my life in general, the anxiety of reaching out to other people for help is one of the largest obstacles I struggle with and one of the most important for me to work on.
Like with many of the other patterns, I find that this one did not necessarily teach me anything truly novel. However, it validates what I thought I knew and backed that up, which is just as important.
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