There is always a good teacher behind a good student and a good engineer needs a good mentor who will help sharpen the skills and knowledge of that person. There is a saying “if you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together”. Together with the mentorship, the engineer will become skilled at his job and has solid fundamental knowledge in this field.
By learning from the best, we learn how to become one of them. The apprenticeship will be supervised by a series of mentors who possess varying degrees of mastery. Every master used to be a student and no one is perfect. So keeping in mind that a master must be perfect is a misconception. It can be tempting to feel that way because they know so much more than we do. We must resist the temptation because we would not want to disillusion our mentor’s inevitable weaknesses.
The story about Dave finding his mentor shows us his journey. By sending out a random email to his mentor, Wyatt, he initially did not expect Wyatt’s response however Wyatt did. The effort was a payoff and he earned himself a mentor. What we could learn from this story is that we should not afraid to ask for help because sometimes what the other is waiting for is us asking.
Good mentors are not easy to find and not everyone is willing to open their arms and welcome us as amateurs. Plus, reaching out to someone that we do not know feels intimidating. However, the risk of being rejected is low but the payoff would be huge. Even though that person does not want to become our master but if we are consistent enough, what we could get back is a good friend. Besides taking in, passing along what we have learned from our mentors is one of the ways in which we can begin the transition to journeyman status.
How could we do that? One must wonder
Choose a tool, library, or community that has an active mailing list. Start small by signing up for the list but do not post any messages yet. Gradually, we will understand the values of the community and learn which of the subscribers are patient teachers. Seek out the members of this list the next time we see them and ask if they would be interested in providing us with some advice about the lesson they have learned. As I said above, we might get rejected but the valuable gift that one might earn is a good friend.
From the blog CS@Worcester – Hung Nguyen by hpnguyen27 and used with permission of the author. All other rights reserved by the author.