For this week’s blog post, I decided to review a chapter about a topic that I have thought about a lot. The topic that I am reviewing this week is the importance of mentors and finding kindred spirits. For those of you who does not know what a kindred spirit is, a kindred spirit is someone who shares your interests or attitude about a topic. I find this topic interesting because it is a topic that I have thought a lot about. In the past, when I was a Mathematics major, I felt like I had found a lot of kindred spirits. I used to spend a lot of time in the math lab and center solving math problems with these people. When I think back about those days, I view it as some of my most productive years in my undergraduate career. I used to be very studious and was very motivated to be in school. As people within the group graduated one by one, I found myself at a loss and became very unmotivated. This is why I found the first segment of the section interesting because it talks about the importance of finding kindred spirits in order to stay motivated. One line from that section that stuck to me was the line about the impact of having a relationship with a kindred spirit. Some relationships may be short but may make a major impact in a person’s life. This was how I felt about the relationships I formed when I was a math major. The time I spent with those people may have been brief but the time we did spend together did feel meaningful and I would not have had it any other way. One thing this chapter has changed is how I thought finding new kindred spirits. After the last of the group graduated, I tried finding other kindred spirits in those who were still there, but I did not feel that same connection. So, I have always tried finding kindred spirits by physical vicinity. I have always thought of myself as a follower so one thing that the chapter brought up that I never really thought is why don’t I just a start a group of my own. This thought was something that went over my head and is something I think I may consider some time in the future.
Another topic that the chapter talked about is the topic of group thought. I think this is a very relative issue that needs to be addressed when thinking about creating a group and I think there should be precautions in place to ensure that the group can still have healthy debates.
From the blog CS@Worcester – Just a Guy Passing By by Eric Nguyen and used with permission of the author. All other rights reserved by the author.
